I didn't feel like your post was attacking at all, haha. It was an interesting read, actually, and I appreciate that you took the time to go through and detail your arguments.
It's definitely an topic that I get fired up about, as I'm sure is clear from my previous posts. The issue that I encounter is that I feel like, in a number of cases, there's too much blame placed on the victim and not enough blame placed on the offender. "The victim shouldn't have done x" instead of "The offender shouldn't have done y" type of thing.
The examples you've given are definitely true for today's Internet, and I certainly don't expect boys and girls to stop trying to talk to each other! I would, however, like to see a place where there's a bit more fairness in regards to boundaries and respect.